Like you, I see Ted as the warm, easy-going one and Andromeda coming off as a bit cold. My version of her is quite a troubled person and, although she does her best, that does still affect the relationship she has with her daughter. So there is always an element of tension in every aspect of their relationship.

I also agree with you on Tonks having to live with the name - no matter what she thinks of the person she was named after, it can't have been an easy name to live with.